With the End in Mind - Kathryn Mannix

£16.99

Told through a series of beautifully crafted stories taken from nearly four decades of clinical practice, her book answers the most intimate questions about the process of dying with touching honesty and humanity. She makes a compelling case for the therapeutic power of approaching death not with trepidation but with openness, clarity and understanding. With the End in Mind is a book for us all: the grieving and bereaved, ill and healthy. Open these pages and you will find stories about people who are like you, and like people you know and love. You will meet Holly, who danced her last day away; Eric, the retired head teacher who, even with Motor Neurone Disease, gets things done; loving, tender-hearted Nelly and Joe, each living a lonely lie to save their beloved from distress; and Sylvie, 19, dying of leukaemia, sewing a cushion for her mum to hug by the fire after she has died. These are just four of the book s thirty-odd stories of normal humans, dying normal human deaths. They show how the dying embrace living not because they are unusual or brave, but because that s what humans do. By turns touching, tragic, at times funny and always wise, they offer us illumination, models for action, and hope. Read this book and you ll be better prepared for life as well as death.

Kathryn Mannix is on a mission to reclaim public understanding of dying.

I have helped to care for thousands of people at the very end of their lives and have seen first-hand the harm done by the Taboo of Death. Instead of dying, people 'pass away'.  They are not 'dead': but 'late' or 'departed'.

It is time to give each other permission to talk about dying. Confronting the the process allows us to plan for and relate to our dearest people over the last part of their lives.

My weapon of choice for this campaign is stories. These are stories about people who could have been  your friend, your sister, your dad, your son.  These are stories about how dying people embrace living not because they are unusual or brave, but because that's what humans do.

These are stories about normal humans. dying normal human deaths, and they offer us illumination, models for action, and hope.